Eek... That's tough. Two wrongs do not make a right-- to truly win a case, morally, is to seek to be as blameless as humanly possible. I, passionately, believe in the art of conversation and don't mind challenging a guest - gently, playfully - to reconsider their point of view. This is the Socratic method - and our minds and hearts are expanded when we must think/feel more deeply through what we believe is correct or just. As an ex-Nietzschean and Wildean, too, I know that a little provocation and confrontation, even, is necessary in a healthy exchange -- the trick, of course, is to do so with kindness and humor.

Being an immigrant and Muslim, in Trump's America, you can imagine some of the tight tight spots I've been in (even at family dinners). I make it a personal challenge (on behalf of those without a voice) to present biased individuals with an alternative perspective. It doesn't always work, but it's worth a try... :)