Thanks for sharing this @olawalium, you are really wonderful

I have gone through pain, so I understand what happiness means. If you don’t go through certain things, you can’t fully grasp the concepts of some certain things.

Understanding the positive aspects of experiencing pain can help us do this better. What doesn’t kill you makes you stronger.
Whatever you gone through and doesn't kill you will surely makes you stronger.

Stop beating yourself up about life’s experiences and the things you go through. Be open and understand that it won’t always rain forever, there will still be sunshine. You can’t keep going through all that, without having a head start. You will only be better for it. There are some decisions forced upon you or that you had to make, only after that can you see why they truly happened.

instead of letting it overwhelm you. Instead of letting pain consumer you and destroy you, you should learn how to let it change you for the better and make you a better person.