It can never be love. Love is patient it's kind. I don't think someone can intentionally harm someone they claim to love. If one truly love someone they do their possible best to avoid seeing the person getting hurt. Most times people get married for various reasons, the worst that can happen is when someone confuse lust for love. Lust can be in their partner's physical appearance, carrier, financial state and so on. A marriage build on lust is bound to fail. I will advise everyone to choose the door when they know the heat in a marriage or relationship is getting too much. It's better to walk away than to stay and die

Beautiful write up @ceepee