Nice one. That was why i said "some things":

There are some things that are peculiar to your family. You don't need to go about sharing them or exposing them. You need to be able to cover each other when some certain matters are concerned.

There are some issues that needed to stay in your family without external interference. Not even to report to your own family members. You need to protect your marriage in every way but this doesn't cover domestic violence, that's why i was particular to use the word "some".

Thanks for your view as always. Always appreciated.