Words Of Wisdom IX { Emotional Intelligence/Motivation }

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“When you make people angry, they act in accordance with their baser instincts, often violently and irrationally. When you inspire people, they act in accordance with their higher instincts, sensibly and rationally. Also, anger is transient, whereas inspiration sometimes has a life-long effect.” —Peace Pilgrim

These has been proven countless times and has become universal constants. Even in physics, it was stated that for every reaction , there’s an equal and opposite reaction which is the resultant . Never you make people angry but instead be an inspiration unto others. Inspiring people is adding value to their lives while getting them angry might be dangerous.... Mide

“Persons of high self-esteem are not driven to make themselves superior to others; they do not seek to prove their value by measuring themselves against a comparative standard. Their joy is being who they are, not in being better than someone else.” —Nathaniel Branden

High self-esteem had in time past be mistaken for pride and also some had mistaken pride for high self-esteem but all got it wrong. High self-esteem in my own knowledge is believing in yourself, absence of superiority or inferiority. And most importantly no comparison cause you’re unique, that’s high self esteem.... Mide

“Those who enter the gates of heaven are not beings who have no passions or who have curbed the passions, but those who have cultivated an understanding of them.” —William Blake

The gate of heaven here isn’t a biblical term, but referring to success in my own understanding. Success do not come without passion as passion leads to motivation and motivation brings about determination. Your love for what you do is a certainty to success.... Mide

“Anxiety is the dizziness of freedom.” —Soren Kierkegaard

Anxiety is said to be a feeling of worry, nervousness, or unease about something with an uncertain outcome. It is also a nervous disorder marked by excessive uneasiness and apprehension, typically with compulsive behaviour or panic attacks. Fight and stay away from anxiety by gaining total control of yourself and developing the ability to remain calm and absolute control in all situations.... Mide

“If we could read the secret history of our enemies, we would find in each man’s life a sorrow and a suffering enough to disarm all hostility.” —Henry Longfellow

This is quite true, so true that I imagined and considered myself enemy to some, only if they could look deep into my life, then all hostility against me would vanish.... Mide

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