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RE: It is Okay to Feel Good

in #philosophy6 years ago (edited)

In most places I have traveled too, like Brazil for example, people feel good and are generally happy. Even though they don't have the best living condition. I think in the individualistic societies, people are taught more about achievement and productivity because people get their sense of pride through those things. While in tight-knight communities, people don't get their happiness from material things, possessions, and status, mostly from relationships, families and friendships. They don't feel guilty feeling good and so they are generally content with their lives.

But I see there's always the bad side. Because some people tend to be unproductive or lazy, or living moment by moment until there's literally nothing but time on their hands lol. While the workaholics in advanced societies tend to get unhappy and dissatisfied in life despite achievement and wealth. This does not apply to everyone of course, just my observation.

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I agree. There are more than a few things that play in this issue. I didn't touch on this but some of it is comes from feeling guilty because you feel good while others don't but I see that as more based in empathy than some bad belief.

Collectiveism and individualism both have strengths and weaknesses. Looking for a middle path seems to work well enough for striking a good balance but finding it is not easy in a culture that is very much one or the other. Traveling might help with that, come to think of it.

Haha yeah that are for real lazy people for sure but I don't think that is much anyone can do about them lol.

finding it is not easy in a culture that is very much one or the other.

This is really true. When I was traveling I don't get why people are too happy or just having too much fun (not that there's something wrong with that lol), and then I wonder why there are people who are too serious about their lives, or thinking about the future and stability too much.

I think that is a lot of it. I have seen people do stupid things out of spite because someone told them not to because "no one tells me what to do" but I have also seen people not do things that they should do because "it will upset the family" or whatever. There is a time to do both but sometimes it is hard to tell when.

Haha I need to stop typing these on my phone. I always miss obvious typos lol.

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