I was manipulated when I proposed . I called my wife on the phone and said " hey , you want to get married next week . Gotta go let me know " I fooled her . it was a collect call . yea they had collect calls back then and phone booths . google it

Sometime being manipulated into some things can be a good thing .

Not everyone is going to like authentic you

oh let me see if I can count that high :)