I genuinely could not be happier for you two! And like @minismallholding said, a wedding doesn't need to break the bank - or even be traditional at all. You don't need to spend a fortune on the whole affair; hell, you can just have a cheap wedding at a court and then go all out on a party, or just do it quiet like with dinner and close friends and family. Do what makes you happy, not what is expected of you!