@rem-steem I can relate with you when you speak on the topic of others judging you. It happens all the time yet most don't realize it isn't their place. Even with good intentions, it still isn't a place for others to comment. Giving perspective is one thing - but judging others for what they do or don't do is another issue. I too have passed up promotions for more personal life matters. Good for you for putting first what you believe to be better for you in your life. No one else can tell you what you need for your life experience. Thank you for sharing your post.