Many times we get carried away by admiration, even by fanaticism, we are so surprised by the talent, intelligence, sympathy or beauty of another person that we end up feeling diminished. We are depressed by the comparison and we feel that we can never be like them. And, probably, it's true but maybe not. The point is not really that, because what is really important is what qualities we have to highlight ourselves. What are our talents, our skills, our strengths. It does not matter if we are better or worse than others, but how much we can improve what we already are, how much we can grow and learn. Start to look a little more inward before looking outside.
Just then, loving and recognizing our virtues, we can admire and recognize others, from the appreciation for differences.

Is it worth not being yourself? Absolutely not, because whatever we do, we show ourselves as we show ourselves, there will always be people who we don't will like. All the people that come to live this experience on earth have a mission, a purpose, that is why it is so important to be oneself, that we are authentic, because we have been commissioned to perform a task and that task can only be done if we are ourselves and not if we try to be someone we are not.
Instead of accepting that we are unique pieces we try to become the next piece and for that we adopt positions that make us be tense with the belief that if we hold the position for long enough we will end up fitting into a space that is not the ours, in a place that is not made for us.

When we accept ourselves and decide to be ourselves, we realize that there is an ideal place for each one of us.
The fact of starting to be oneself makes the Universe begin to support us and our life becomes a little easier, which makes all the sense in the world, because if each one of us comes to fulfill a specific mission we have been endowed with all the qualities and gifts that we need to carry it out, but for this we have to be ourselves.