Aww hi, :D long time no see. Your most welcome , i hope it could help you :)
Aw i did it As i actually got called a 'complainer' for the first time in my life O.o LOL So i payed attention to his word pattern and interactions, rest asure, i was NOOT the actual complainer ;) :P LOL
I find/think venting can actually be helpful; buut thats helpful for THE complainer, not the once listening.. ;) I think a combination of vent & instrumental complaint teatch you to grow as a person :)