Whatever your heart tells you to do, which you know she would like, just go ahead and do it. Forget what the society says. We need to be better husbands and stop holding on to what people “might” say.

This is the point a lot of people don't really understand, especially in West Africa country like Nigeria.

We believe in tribalism and culture. A man who decided to help her wife fetch water we be regarded as moron. Whereas, your wife is not a housemaid or a slave who you expect to do all the activities.

Though, women has the responsibility to take care of house, helping her out when you are less busy is not a bad thing. But it's the environment that determines what we do to our loved ones at times, which is very bad.

As a man, we have to do everything in our capacity to make our wife happy. Doing that will makes them returned the kindness and will would have a blessed family.

Thank you @communitycoin and @olawalium for sharing