Lets talk about sex and equality

in #sex5 years ago

Did this sentence confuse you?
It might. Is there something like equality in sex?. Are partners ever equal? And are we genettically programmed for inequality, also during sex?

A person once told me that sex is about power. And I struggle with this idea. I don't want to believe it.
I truly believe that sex is about pleasuring each other, and therefore giving and receiving. Yes yes, there are people that like being overpowered, playing games, fifty shades of gray or the opposite, but I truly believe that the average person would enjoys a sexual relationship the most that is more equal than imbalanced. Even though we know that there is inequality in sexual relationships whith one party not enjoying ( usually herself). I think it isn’t because the overpowering person wants to overpower, they actual want the other party to enjoy sex, forcing to enjoy it, and you could see it as incompetence, as pleasuring the other would be much more enjoyable, if you get where I am going.

Anyway
I wish you pleasurable sex in 2019

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I believe is important to have a balanced one instead of domination ralationship.

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I believe in balance in almost everything. Maybe crypto will give the world some balance?

It was really hard in 2018 in crypto but I keep going because and I still believe. The balance is to spread it and bring it to the mainstream population. :)
I wish you a Happy New Year and happy you come back to steem blockchain. :)

Yeah, though when I spread it, they laugh. And I came back because I enjoy it and believe in it, but got a bit demotivated . Working for a start up and building all the time made me tired of trying to “build here”. I realize here I shouldn’t build, but just enjoy. Happy new year to you too :-).

I believe this is cool that you change your perspective and come here to have fun and share on your interest. We moving this blockchain all together. :)

Let me be learning and storing up knowledge until i get married. I hope you are doing well? And how is your son doing now?

Dropped you a message on discord

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