Should a man cook? Yes.

He should learn to cook so as to assist his wife when she can't due to illness or otherwise. He should learn how to cook to help himself in her absence. He must learn how to cook in order to make their relationship stronger and healtheir. It is proven that when a couple spend time in the kitchen together; with the man helping out one way or the other, it strengthens the relationship. In fact, it's romantic when a man cooks for his woman/wife.

No one is saying the man should completely take over the kitchen, but the man should not detach himself from the kitchen or in assisting his wife there.

Romance should not just be present in the bedroom. A man should also be romantic in other areas including the kitchen!

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