The Christian and the family-the man "husband and father"
I Corinthians 11: 7
Currently the family has suffered an unprecedented attack in recent years, a total deformation in all areas, which has penetrated and undermined the family nucleus increasing problems and anti-values in young people who are today deforming.
God wants to restore this. If society is to be restored, it is because we are going first to restore the family, which is the fundamental basis of society.
A genuine challenge:
If men change, heads of households change the country. Some points that we must consider are the following:
1.- Husband loves your wife as Christ loved the church (Ephesians 5:25): There is a good question here men. Do you love your wives as Christ loved the church?
How I love her?
He gave himself for her, you remember the passion of Christ, all that the Lord let him do for his church, the first Adam from the side took Eva a woman.
But from the side of the second Adam; that is, Christ, the church came out. What I wanted to do with all this:
a.- sanctify her (Ephesians 5:26): He knows that she is not holy, he wants to sanctify her, he sees the church beat but he does not mistreat her, he does not hurt her he proposes to sanctify her How?
b.- Purifying it by the word (Ephesians 5:26): He does not mistreat her or end her trampling even though he knows her condition, he purifies her by the word. It gives you a good word.
The book of songs is a sign of the love of Christ with his beloved church, lean songs 4: 1-16, 5: 1-2 How does he treat her? How about? Are these words similar to those that husbands tell wives? , remember, the flame: "my sister, my wife" and that is what the spouses must know, before making her his wife, that we are washed with the blood of Christ and bearers of the Holy Spirit, and therefore we deserve honor and care .
The Bible says:
"If there is a wife, there is good and he reaches the benevolence of Jehovah." In other words, it reaches the understanding, blessing, mercy, compassion of God, because it has honored marriage, the undefiled bed.
2 .- The man must learn to love his wife, give honor as the most fragile glass: They are more fragile than men, therefore should give honor and the place they deserve.
The family must be based on what the Bible establishes to be able to fulfill the role of father-husband, assuming responsibility as the head and authority of the wife and the whole house.
Everything must be guided by the divine will, man should be the head of the home, love his wife and instruct his children, the wife should be subject to her husband, treat him well and above all love God, because if God does not build the house in vain they work what they live in it.
The husband is the head of the household and as the head of the home he should pray for his family, look after his wife and children, treat the woman as the word says, otherwise his prayers will be a hindrance.
1 Peter 3: 7 Reina-Valera 1960 (RVR1960)
If a husband cares for his children, he is doing well, but he treats his wife with aspersions, his prayers do not reach the feet of God because the bible says that his prayers will stumble. In the same way, women should be subject to our husband and respect him because in this way we please God.
So true! When there is restoration in the family, society improves. Good sister message