I agree, society is very much the same here as in real life. I've found that after I cleansed my feed with just folks that provide some sort of sustenance for the good parts of life, I like it much more here. And I never go on discord anymore. I think that helps too :)
Of course it's the same as the same people are here that you can find outside steemit :) Good thing there are plenty, we can choose who to follow and associate with :)
Discord is a necessary evil unfortunately, but I can limit my staying there and avoid the crowd that I don't like. Have a nice weekned :)