Brother, you only have 24 hours in a day, and I am sure you are doing the best you can. And, I am sure all parents who have more than one child feel like you at some point.

I am sure your older knows you love her equally as your second child. And, as you wrote your older daughter seems to be a happy child who is not missing anything in her life. Don't forget to give yourself a break sometimes as well. :)

Maybe do little more planning in the future on how to spend more time with your daughter. Either way, it seems like you are doing a great job as a father. :)

Thanks for sharing a piece of your life with us. Have an amazing day. :)