This reminds me of a part if the bible that says

He who keeps instruction is in the way of life,
But he who refuses correction goes astray
Prov 10:17.

Astray means:

• away from the correct path or direction.
• into error or morally questionable behaviour

One of the reasons i think people are force opinionated is because of ego, some people hate to loose so they never want to accept defeat, hence anything that obstructs their flow of desire is counted as a threat and so they have to act in defense even if it was the wrong action.

I knew a girl who constantly had fights with her close friends because she didnt just have a flair for having her way, but she must have her way and you must follow her along, she was 42 yesterday, she has not married. But Gods time is best. A lot of time we only limit our potentials when we find these characteristics within ourselves and do nothing about it, The first solution to a problem is acceptance, then constant effort and determination to battle it out

Thanks for these post, it has re-opened our eyes to some so called small things. I hope we all learn