You wrote ~ # It is easy to lose sight of the big picture when lost in momentary suffering and if not careful, it can become a self-defeating cycle of behavior. The first thing in order to have a sense of control, is to take control of our emotional states. It is easier under some conditions than others. Time is a funny thing.........
Its a silent, foreverongoing and brutal thing, But ver precious.
Goodmorning father here a mum off 4 with her own story. You state - if you are lucky maybe you thrive -
Let me tell you, you Will be amazed , cause she will. She Will! Its amazing how much strenght our LITTLE bundles off joy have. When i look behind myself they grew a inch from last month. They love us unconditionally and we love them 10 times that much.
Dear friend you Will worry ALWAYS its a job remember. And its CFDL a contract for dear life. There Will always be difficulties, beats, health, school, friends ohhhh and puberty problems, but i take them anyday.
I wish you strenght and send a box of courage for the LITTLE princess, coming from a boys mum, she isss toooo cute with the hat and all ! That box is needed in life and Will show you that courage is what she got from her parents and that they Will make sure THRIVES Will happen,
Ok off the blow my nose and day my tears ....
And take out the baby album ITS BEEN 7 YEARS and 21 KG of pure love now, hope mum LITTLE prince Will wake up and i can say MUM LOVED YOU UNCONDITIONALLY
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She surprises me every day with the way she grows and deals with things - Even when she is being a pain in the behind.
I don't know how it will all wind up but, I will continue to do my best. I think that is all a parent can really do.
I hope you have a great weekend with our family :)
As a parent you never know if the things you do, teach and preach are the right ones untill they tell you and that Will be when they are parents them selves untill than we Will Exchange experiences and insecureaties here on the steemisfere