The desire to be love by people is really imperative, but we really have to understand that you cannot be love by all man no matter how hard will try to make things right , the only thing I know and I will like to contribute is that we should always do somethings that our heart will sanctified as palatable often, with that we shouldn't be more bother since there is no way to please everybody ( that we haven't done anything wrong)

When a man is in love, and a lady rejects him, it shatters his ego

You are right on this man, is it nature of man to always be turned down and at the same time to be embraced, but a lady is so emotional that if they get heartbreak or turned down it might be too hard on them to cope. I believe men heart is very rigid while of a lady seems to be flexible. Maybe that is why it is often hard on them to propose to man, afraid not to be turned down

We start filling our head with a load of questions about Am I not good enough? Could it be because I don’t have money? or What was he or she expecting?

I guess you have had the same experience with lady brother, it is always like that, we tend to ask different question why and how we got turn down most especially from the woman and we try to do please such lady to tell us what actually went wrong to deserve that.

rather be who you are and seek to evolve.

This does really matter. Getting oneself upgraded to a higher level could be of great important and the fact that the lady might even find that person interesting can't be over emphasize. Like is not always fair like that because people will love often don't get to love us back or hurt us to most. Remember love is not always that equals, there will be someone who is actually more addicted.