I would say that @alexabsolute didn't mean what he said the way he said. It did spark a bit of discussion, which is nice. It's also a lesson that we can all learn about "intention" vs "result." It happens.

I have a friend who used to suck at his intentions and results. He'd say something like "I can do this, why can't you," and his intention would be positive, but that kind of statement is super negative.