Same exact sentiments. I was finally able to pull myself out of the victim mentality last year and see how my focus on what was wrong was causing me so much suffering and essentially holding me back from my true potential. I was once only able to focus on my passions for an hour at a time because deep down I still felt like a victim who life HAPPENED to, and it made me feel as if I wouldn’t be able to succeed. I know differently now. I feel many friends going through the same process right now and coming out the other end far more empowered.