What's funny about all this is, while women seem to equate financial stability to security, men, or at least in my case, equate love to security. If we know our wife/girlfriend loves us, we're good to go. If we don't know, we're confused and can be lost.

With women, love is something they seek, and I'm sure it's part of it, but if that security isn't there financially, too, love doesn't seem to be enough. :) Speaking from my own experience, so I'm sure there's going to be someone out there who thinks differently or has had a different experience. I guess we're making our own way through life and drawing our own conclusions.