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RE: FINANCE AND ROMANCE
I agree with most of what you said and yes it is a universal thing. And most people equate financial stability with happiness which is not true. You can be in a high paying job and be miserable; you can have money and still be miserable in your relationship. Personally, if one claims to love or respect me because of it my financial status then I will always be suspicious about that person and their true intentions.
"Whats money without happiness."
Most people are not even chasing comfort but luxury. They want a life that is appealing on social media but that's not in. I'm not in a relationship and not planning on being in one anytime soon.
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Financial stability has a lot to do with peace of mind particularly if you have dependents. High income isn’t enough. Financial stability is a product of having enough income for basic needs and modest spending habits.
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What's funny about all this is, while women seem to equate financial stability to security, men, or at least in my case, equate love to security. If we know our wife/girlfriend loves us, we're good to go. If we don't know, we're confused and can be lost.
With women, love is something they seek, and I'm sure it's part of it, but if that security isn't there financially, too, love doesn't seem to be enough. :) Speaking from my own experience, so I'm sure there's going to be someone out there who thinks differently or has had a different experience. I guess we're making our own way through life and drawing our own conclusions.